I forgot about those bugs

A few weeks ago I approached one of my coworkers who usually has a pretty glum attitude and greeted him with my usual “Good morning”.

Now I must say that I wasn’t expecting much of a response but I was pleasantly surprised when he offered a rather robust reply. He shared his excitement over his upcoming vacation and how it was really going to be a time for him to get away and disconnect from the world. He described how he was going to vacation in a pretty remote section of up-state New York that could only be reached by a boat and that he was going to fish and fish and fish. He seemed quite pleased that the usual comforts that we all take for granted would be absent from the rustic cabin he would be staying in and that it would not be easy for anyone to have contact with him, or vice-versa. As I left the conversation I found myself thinking that perhaps this might be just the vacation for this man who on occasion seemed irritable and disagreeable and not particularly happy. Perhaps he would really “de-stress” there and come back ready to face life with a new and vibrant perspective. He seemed very excited about the prospect of it all and I could tell there was a spring in his step the rest of the day as he considered the wave of peace he was expecting to wash over him when he was gone. 

The week that he was gone I wondered how he was doing and I prayed that his time away would indeed be a time of renewal. Then, with some anticipation on my part, I approached him on the day of his return and asked excitedly, “How was it?” I could tell by the look on his face before he even spoke that things didn’t go well and in about sixty-seconds it had become clear that he did not enjoy himself and that he would never subject himself to that type of experience again. He cited the bug bites he had received (he even showed me a few) and how it rained many of the days as just some of the reasons that his oasis had turned into a remote wreck of a vacation. I really felt bad for him and in many ways I could identify with him. I too have been on my fair-share of vacations that I thought would be everything we were hoping for only to feel after about three days that home was looking pretty good.

It amazes me how we lure ourselves into this illusion that some experience, whether it be a vacation or something else is going to be just what we need. Sometimes I’m surprised that we don’t realize that we are setting ourselves up for great disappointment by just considering how much we are thinking “a week away” is going to do for us. If you listen to some folks they seem to think that their time away will resolve their relationship issues, make their job better, improve their health, and give them a fantastic new perspective on how to live life. If that isn’t a set-up I don’t know what is….

I think we would all do better if we would just hear the beautiful voice of God who tells us where real contentment and joy can be found, whether we are at home, on vacation, away on business, or in a hospital. I encourage you to curl up with the words of the Psalmist below who has come to value God and His word more than all things. Ask God to help you set aside all of your notions about God that perhaps are in the way of you seeing Him for who He truly is and then open your heart fully to Him. I believe you will find what the Psalmist found in Psalm 119:

Blessed are those whose way is blameless, who walk in the law of the Lord!

Blessed are those who keep his testimonies, who seek him with their whole heart, who also do no wrong, but walk in his ways!
You have commanded your precepts to be kept diligently. Oh that my ways may be steadfast in keeping your statutes! Then I shall not be put to shame, having my eyes fixed on all your commandments.
I will praise you with an upright heart, when I learn your righteous rules.[b]8 I will keep your statutes;  do not utterly forsake me! How can a young man keep his way pure? By guarding it according to your word. 10 With my whole heart I seek you; let me not wander from your commandments! 11 I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you. 12 Blessed are you, O Lord;  teach me your statutes! 13 With my lips I declare all the rules[c] of your mouth. In the way of your testimonies I delight as much as in all riches. 15 I will meditate on your precepts and fix my eyes on your ways.

I will delight in your statutes; I will not forget your word.

For His glory,

P.S.

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